Looking Front and Marching Ahead

Dear Friends,

Welcome to Anbusivam's Blog Page.

After my previous post on Looking Back, I lately realised that I had almost forgot to look front. Now, I've decided to march ahead with newer learning’s and experiences in life.

At this juncture both in my Personal and Professional life, big changes are taking place that's going to bring in more responsibilities with greater expectations. At personal front I’m getting married on 2nd September. It's taking up most of my time after work and that's the main reason for no regular updates here in www.anbusivam.com.

I am sure Life is going to be colorful with lots of new experiences and learning’s particularly in terms of understanding personal relationships. I am used to live alone, away from my parents now for almost more than 5 yrs. I think I've become less sensitive to the under currents of actual feelings and emotions expressed to me in all these years. May be I should spend some more quality time looking within myself to understand me as a person first and next relationships with my near and dear ones. I am trying to be more sensitive to the feelings expressed and unexpressed sometimes.

My DCS (Diploma in Counseling Skills) would be of greatest help to make my life really fruitful and joyful. I can never forget one question that I’ve learnt on relationships, which is “Do you want to be correct or do you want to be happy…?” Mot of the times we want to be correct, want to be perfect, continue the argument just to prove that other person is wrong and at the end what remains is not happiness, but a bitterness in relationship. The moment we let go those compulsions to prove a point or to be perfect always, close relationships would bloom into flowers of happiness.

Off late I am getting comments from my friends that most of my recent posts are based on emotional and psychological factors. Yes, after my counseling course and little experiences with the few clients I’ve got, I think mental wellness is utmost important than any great leadership qualities in life. Sound mind in a sound body is the basic stepping stone to any great journey in life.

I am starting to look forward and march ahead with new thoughts, ideas and experiments in life to understand ultimately “What makes us do what do we do…?” that is "Motivation" in life.

Thanks for visiting my page.

With Love,

Anbusivam